Making Judgement? :)

Hi guys !

           I think it is not too late yet to wish Happy New Year 2016 right? May this year bring us joy and happiness throughout the year! So, lets us move into our new chapter of life and become much much much more better than previous one. Since this is my first entry for this year I would like to share something that closely related to our daily life which is about "making judgement". Hm.. Who knows maybe this sharing will help you to reflect yourself and might also make some positive changes for your new year's resolution (hehe)

           So guys, I bet all of you always judged others or being judged by other people as it is something that naturally popped in our mind every time we saw or knew something and of course I am not excluded. The most important thing you should know is that it is depend on us how we react to the 'judge-being judged' situations as it is because of your or their judgement can be weather positive or negative depends on individual perceptions. Actually it is not really good to being too judgmental towards others as they must have reasons for anything they did and as we all know, nobody is perfect although he/she is a lawyer, head judge or even the prime minister as well. They are just an ordinary human being that always makes mistakes.

            For me, I had learn a lot from my past and frankly speaks I do not like to quickly judge people although sometimes I will think about the bad one first. I have a story where I had meet a girl who don't really smile even when she is talking to anyone and my first perception is of course she is a snobbish person but after that my mind will remind me that there must be a reason why he/she acted that way and not long after that I was informed about she is having a serious family problem. How on earth she could smile when her mind keep thinking about that and can you imagine if you are in her shoes going through the hard times? From that, I found that it is very crucial for us to have a positive thought towards someone although he/she shows a negative expression. It is better than you spread to everyone that he/she is snobbish and people will look down or hate him/her without even talk or met the person.

            In making judgement we will never get correct all the time because possibility to misjudge is up to 95%. It is because we judge by what we see and what we hear from others. We didn't ask themselves or didn't even get through the journey that they are walking. It is absolutely differ among us as we have our own story lines with our own actors and if we judged people based on a chapter that we walked in only, we will never know the full story about someone's real life. So, you are actually making the wrong judgments that may effect your relationship with them and might also ruin their life. Train yourself to not being too judgmental towards others whatever their actions as you should always remember that what comes around goes around right?

          Actually there are many another types of ways in making judgement such as based on personal outlook, attitudes and others. Every time we see someone we will judge everything and mostly are about the negative one about the person but can you imagine how would your life be different if you stopped making negative judgmental assumptions about people you encounter? Let today be the day ! You look for the good in everyone you meet and respect their journey. I hope you are able to do this as if you have a positive judgment towards everyone you will feel happy without having heartaches every time you saw people do something bad. If you are unable to make it, it is actually something wrong with yourself and also if you have this kind of friends maybe you can just ignore her/him rather than keep yourself stressed out :)

Thank you for reading this entry !

Love, 

CheFaziera :)