I Got That A Lot :)

“Che ! You ate a lot but didn’t even get fat and maintain thin like a piece of paper!!”

“You like to eat foods that can easily gain weight but why there is no change?? You still thin like a piece of paper, Che”

“You managed to finish many foods at one time but when will you get fat Che! I’m stressed looking at you”

I heard this sentence for million times and I always wonder why they are comparing me with the paper? What are our similarities? Me? Paper? Do we look alike? Okay just drop the subject guys cause I know that we are not related at all and they tend to be too hyperbola in making comparison, am I right?? *please nod your head!* 

But…. one important fact that you guys should know is I’m also not satisfy with my weight that was never gain or lose since I was 17! Is it 17? I think it is before 17 but I’m not really sure the exact one. Hey of course I will put the blame on the weighing scales every times because they had cheated me for almost 2 years or more. How could there is no change for a long time and for sure I’m desperately want an ideal body weight like you, you, you and you! L

Maybe some of you are saying that I’m on diet or eating too little or do not eat at all and you are actually do not know about my passion towards foods. I ate a lot for several times in a day and about 90% of my money spent on the foods only plus I prefer eating western foods, fast foods and anything except rice. But sometimes I also need to eat rice as it is our staple food and my parents will scold me if they knew that I’m not eating the rice at least once per day. I am also would never say no when it comes to something related to foods and I might cry when eating super-duper scrumptious foods! *too dramatic for you but that is the fact* 

Eating those kind of foods is like a therapy for me when I stressed over a lot of Biology notes to be memorized, too much assignments need to submitted within a week or other problems as well.

After eating those kinds of foods, sometimes I will jog or do something that makes me sweat to ensure my body is in a good condition instead of eating without carrying out any healthy lifestyle. It will make me feel better to eat them again and again. Eat, jog, eat, jog, eat and jog again J 

But actually, I rarely jog and if I do so maybe only once per month (haha) Quite worst for you but good enough for me. I do not jog to get slimmer but I jog to get healthier. However, the secret of this thin body is actually inherited from my mom’s family who has the same type of body, skinny just like me. So, it is not because of eating habits at all and I think there is nothing to be jealous because this is not an ideal one that every woman dreamed of. Come on guys…...

For me, the sentences that I got a lot about my “monster eating habit” and “maintain thin body” are actually not suits me at all if you know the truth and story behind them. So, my advice is please being grateful with whatever that you have because maybe the thing that you have is actually the thing that people want the most. Do appreciate before you lose them J

Love,

CheFaziera :)

Making Judgement? :)

Hi guys !

           I think it is not too late yet to wish Happy New Year 2016 right? May this year bring us joy and happiness throughout the year! So, lets us move into our new chapter of life and become much much much more better than previous one. Since this is my first entry for this year I would like to share something that closely related to our daily life which is about "making judgement". Hm.. Who knows maybe this sharing will help you to reflect yourself and might also make some positive changes for your new year's resolution (hehe)

           So guys, I bet all of you always judged others or being judged by other people as it is something that naturally popped in our mind every time we saw or knew something and of course I am not excluded. The most important thing you should know is that it is depend on us how we react to the 'judge-being judged' situations as it is because of your or their judgement can be weather positive or negative depends on individual perceptions. Actually it is not really good to being too judgmental towards others as they must have reasons for anything they did and as we all know, nobody is perfect although he/she is a lawyer, head judge or even the prime minister as well. They are just an ordinary human being that always makes mistakes.

            For me, I had learn a lot from my past and frankly speaks I do not like to quickly judge people although sometimes I will think about the bad one first. I have a story where I had meet a girl who don't really smile even when she is talking to anyone and my first perception is of course she is a snobbish person but after that my mind will remind me that there must be a reason why he/she acted that way and not long after that I was informed about she is having a serious family problem. How on earth she could smile when her mind keep thinking about that and can you imagine if you are in her shoes going through the hard times? From that, I found that it is very crucial for us to have a positive thought towards someone although he/she shows a negative expression. It is better than you spread to everyone that he/she is snobbish and people will look down or hate him/her without even talk or met the person.

            In making judgement we will never get correct all the time because possibility to misjudge is up to 95%. It is because we judge by what we see and what we hear from others. We didn't ask themselves or didn't even get through the journey that they are walking. It is absolutely differ among us as we have our own story lines with our own actors and if we judged people based on a chapter that we walked in only, we will never know the full story about someone's real life. So, you are actually making the wrong judgments that may effect your relationship with them and might also ruin their life. Train yourself to not being too judgmental towards others whatever their actions as you should always remember that what comes around goes around right?

          Actually there are many another types of ways in making judgement such as based on personal outlook, attitudes and others. Every time we see someone we will judge everything and mostly are about the negative one about the person but can you imagine how would your life be different if you stopped making negative judgmental assumptions about people you encounter? Let today be the day ! You look for the good in everyone you meet and respect their journey. I hope you are able to do this as if you have a positive judgment towards everyone you will feel happy without having heartaches every time you saw people do something bad. If you are unable to make it, it is actually something wrong with yourself and also if you have this kind of friends maybe you can just ignore her/him rather than keep yourself stressed out :)

Thank you for reading this entry !

Love, 

CheFaziera :)